“Mom, I’m pregnant!”
Patti White was stunned. The world had told her this was impossible—books, doctors, and experts had all assured her that men with Down syndrome were sterile. And yet, here she was, hearing the joyful, trembling voice of her daughter Lisa, announcing that a new life was on the way.
At first, Patti felt a mix of emotions—excitement, concern, and a million questions racing through her mind. But above all, she knew one thing for certain: she would stand by Lisa every step of the way.
Defying Expectations
Lisa, at 29, had already proven time and time again that she was more than capable of leading an independent life. She had her own apartment, a steady job at Goodwill, and a heart full of love. Society often underestimated people with Down syndrome, failing to see their strength, resilience, and ability to build meaningful lives and relationships.
Lisa’s relationship with her partner had been real, loving, and responsible. They had openly discussed adult topics like birth control and safe sex. But fate had other plans, challenging everything Patti—and the world—thought was possible.
The Stigma and Silent Judgment
When a couple without disabilities chooses not to have children, they are often seen as selfish. But when two people with Down syndrome decide to bring a child into the world, the conversation suddenly shifts—judgments come from every direction, with strangers, doctors, and even well-meaning friends questioning their ability to parent.
But for Patti, the answer was simple: Lisa was an adult making a choice about her own life. And she would not let society’s skepticism dictate her daughter’s happiness.
A New Journey Begins
As the months passed, Lisa embraced her pregnancy with excitement and determination. She was about to embark on a journey that few believed was possible, proving that love, support, and a mother’s unwavering belief could move mountains.
The world may have doubted her, but Lisa had already defied the odds once. And she was ready to do it again.
